
Welcome, fellow explorer!
I’m Ersilia, and I believe that travel is about discovering the soul of a place.
But sometimes, finding that soul isn’t always straightforward.
We’re bombarded by “top 10” lists and tourist attractions that everyone visits — the Eiffel Tower, Louvre, Mont Saint-Michel — that we often miss the authentic experiences waiting just around the corner.
Ordering that perfect croissant in a local boulangerie. Finding that hidden village in Provence. Discovering a family-run restaurant that’s been serving regional specialties for generations.
These can all seem intimidating when you don’t speak the language or know the local customs.
(I know this reality all too well, because I’ve navigated it myself, and you can read my full story below).
Have you ever returned from a trip feeling like you only scratched the surface? Like there was a whole other France existing parallel to the one you visited?
The France where locals linger over coffee at corner cafés. Where village markets burst with regional specialties you won’t find in Paris. Where centuries-old traditions continue far from tourist cameras.
Imagine stepping confidently into a family-owned vineyard in Bordeaux, exchanging smiles with the vigneron whose family has tended these vines for generations.
What if you could navigate France with the confidence of a local, even without speaking perfect French?
What if you could discover the authentic soul of French towns, villages, and landscapes that most tourists never see?
Picture yourself navigating the labyrinthine streets of Toulouse’s old quarter, knowing exactly which tiny restaurant serves the most authentic cassoulet in the city.
The language, the customs, the unwritten rules – they shouldn’t stand between you and meaningful travel experiences.
This authentic France isn’t hidden away – it’s simply waiting for someone to show you the way.
And that’s exactly why I’m here! 🌟
My blog offers an honest look into the adventures, insights, and hidden gems from your Franco-Romanian travel companion (me!).
Whether you’re planning your first trip to France, a traveler seeking authentic experiences beyond the tourist trails, or someone curious about European culture through a unique lens, this is the destination for you to bring more depth and joy to your journey.
Awaken your curiosity as I share real-talk and resources for exploring France and Europe — and experiencing life — #BeyondTheGuidebook.
Just some of the MANY discoveries you’ll find on this travel blog:
What I Do
How can I help you travel through France and Europe with confidence?
🗺️ Customized Itineraries Already Tested
Skip the guesswork – these aren’t just theoretical routes, but real journeys I’ve taken while living in France! From quick weekend escapes around Toulouse to extended European adventures, each itinerary comes with my tested tips for transit, dining spots, and perfect photo opportunities. Your dream French vacation, planned by someone who lives it daily!
✨ Carefully Selected Experiences
From hidden bistros in Toulouse’s backstreets to charming B&Bs in Provence, I only share places I’ve personally visited and loved. These aren’t tourist traps you’ll find everywhere – they’re authentic experiences that capture the real essence of France and Europe, vetted by a local who knows the difference.
🔍 Discoveries of Hidden Gems
Beyond the Eiffel Tower and Louvre lies a France few tourists ever see. Living in Toulouse has let me uncover those special places locals treasure – secret gardens, family-run bistros, weekend markets, and charming villages that don’t make it to glossy guidebooks. Join me as I reveal these hidden corners of France, along with unexpected discoveries from my travels across Europe!
My Story
In Short
From the misty mountains of Transylvania to the sun-drenched streets of Toulouse – my journey began as an architecture student on a one-year Erasmus exchange that changed everything.
What started as an academic adventure in Clermont-Ferrand bloomed into something unexpected: deep connections with French culture, beautiful landscapes, and yes, a romance that would eventually draw me back permanently.
Four years after that first taste of French life, I made the leap – trading my Romanian roots for new ones in southwestern France. Today, I balance my architectural career with my passion for exploration, turning every weekend into a new discovery mission.
You’ll often find me sketching the façades of medieval villages, paddling down hidden rivers, or hunting for the perfect neighborhood boulangerie to recommend to you. My dual perspective – Eastern European background with Western European daily life – gives me a unique lens through which I see and share France.
And this blog? It’s where all those discoveries come together for fellow travelers seeking the real France beyond the postcards.
The Longer Version
Have you ever felt like you found a piece of your heart in a foreign place?
Yeah, I’ve been there.
Here’s the skinny: I was born and raised in Transylvania, Romania — yes, that Transylvania! — and grew up with a curiosity about the world beyond my borders.
In 2014, my life changed when I was accepted into the Erasmus exchange program (a European Union initiative that allows students to study abroad at partner institutions). I chose Clermont-Ferrand, a modest city of about 140,000 people nestled in France’s volcanic Auvergne region.
It was my first time living alone, in a foreign country no less! But there was something magical about this little-known French city with its buildings crafted from black volcanic stone, the majestic Puy de Dôme volcano watching over the region, and endless hiking trails that beckoned on weekends.
I lived in the heart of the old town, just steps from the magnificent Gothic cathedral, and could walk practically everywhere. This intimacy with the city allowed me to discover a France that most tourists never see — the France of everyday life, local traditions, and genuine connections.
But that year wasn’t just about discovering France — it was also when I met the man who would later become my husband during one of my summer internships. Four years after my Erasmus experience, I took the leap and moved to France “for good” to be with him.
Today, we call Toulouse home — the beautiful “Pink City” in southern France, nicknamed for its distinctive terra-cotta brick buildings that glow rose-colored at sunset. From this perfect home base, we’ve explored the Mediterranean coast, Basque Country, the limestone cliffs of Lot, the castle-dotted landscapes of Dordogne, the glamorous French Riviera, and the lavender fields of Provence.
My work as an architect has also taken me throughout the country, including extended projects in Paris that allowed me to rediscover the capital city I first visited as a wide-eyed tourist with my family back in 2003 (when my sister got terrified during Halloween at Disneyland Paris!).
Travel isn’t just a hobby for us — it’s our shared passion. In the seven years since making France my home, we’ve created countless memories exploring not just my adopted country but also my native Romania and much of Europe together.
I started this blog because I wanted to share a different side of France. Not the France of “top 10” lists or Instagram hotspots, but the authentic France I’ve discovered as both an expat and a local. The France where language doesn’t have to be a barrier to deep, meaningful experiences. The France that exists beyond Paris (though I love the capital too!).
As someone who straddles two cultures — Romanian by birth, French by choice — I offer a unique perspective on European travel. I understand the challenges of navigating a foreign country and culture, but I’ve also developed the insider knowledge that makes travel truly enriching.
My architect’s eye catches details others might miss, my artistic hobby of drawing helps me appreciate the visual stories of places we visit, and my love for outdoor activities like kayaking and hiking has led us to some of the most breathtaking natural settings in France.
Life is an adventure best shared. I want to experience it fully and help you do the same!
I see too many travelers missing the real heart of France because they stick to the famous sites or struggle with the language barrier. Even if you can’t move to France as I did, it’s still possible to experience the authentic soul of this beautiful country.
Browse the blog, find adventures that spark your curiosity, and start planning a journey to France that goes beyond the guidebook.